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I like to read listen to country music bowling and playing and coaching fast pitch softball.I am not into the bar scene,and am hoping to find that special someone.I believe that in order to have a lasting relationship there must be trust,honesty,and mutual respect.If these traits are missing there is no hope of anything meaningful happening.

Hi! I haven't written an essay yet because I joined OkCupid very recently. This space is where I'll express myself soon though. If you'd like to know more about me, please send me a message. This is the default essay OkCupid fills in for new users who haven't written about themselves yet.

I work, I clean, I live, I play. Looking to meet people, and realizing that, beyond the workplace, where do people do that now a days? I haven't found a good answer, so I am turning to other resources, hoping to find someone somewhat likeminded.

I'm looking for friendship, formost, but ultimately would like to form a relationship, of the long term kind.

I love coffee, dancing, music, people. From there, you'll need to talk to me.

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Who I'd like to meet:
Anybody read this anymore?

Someone...

Someone who knows what it's like to love unconditionally, yet knows the value of time apart and how it strengthens a relationship - even a day here and there creates a sense of longing - wanting - to be together again - without that there is only routine, and, while comfortable, creates a lack of desire, passion, lust, and care. (not necessarily in that order)

Someone who understands the value of friendship, the meaning of love, and the premise of compromise. Nothing is perfect, everything is in near balance however.

I'd like to meet someone who knows how to place themselves in another's shoes, and does so without thinking - who chooses what they say carefully, but still says what they mean.

I'd like to know someone who shares their feelings openly, yet doesn't do so in a needy manner. Someone who enjoys time spent together for the quality, not just quantity, though both together makes it better. Someone who enjoys laughing, but not just at people. Someone who knows what it's like to make sacrifices for another person, and not just financially.

Someone who doesn't view everything as a need, but knows when something falls into the want category, and knows when wants are to be held off on until needs are fulfilled.

I'd like to meet people who feel curious, a desire to know things, for no reason other than a general interest.

I'd like to meet someone who feels a desire to grow as a person, try new things, review old things.

Someone who feels that they can explain what they say in a variety of ways.

Someone who enjoys romance, passion, and knows what desire feels like.

Someone who enjoys the subtle things, like a simple touch on the cheek, hand-holding, saying kind and meaningful things. Flowers, for no apparent reason. Kisses goodbye, kisses hello, kisses just to kiss. Did I mention I enjoy kissing? (do I ever)

And, as an example, seeing as those who read seemed to agree, what I think a kiss is...

A kiss.

Sitting there, lips barely touching, breathing through your noses, touching each others faces, pulling in just slightly, and pulling away again to barely touching, breathing deeply in, and shallowly out.

Holding on to time, not wanting to be the one to break the spell. Allowing yourself to just enjoy the radiance of anothers' face. The subtle warmth.

A stroke down the arm, touching the tips of your fingers to the backs of their hands. Outlining every finger, and back up, to their hair, entwining your fingers gingerly, still not moving, still hardly breathing.

Then, you kiss, slowing your breathing still, pushing forward ever so slowly, bottom lips meet fully, then top lips, and part way for just the very tips of your tounges to meet halfway. Breathing stops, grips become tightened, and the world starts to spin. The entangled fingers grasp more desperately as your chests tighten from forgetting to breathe...

That's a kiss.

I am 5'1 1/2" . I enjoy most things, particularly cooking (which isn't easy for one person. I enjoy going out occasionally, but am happy to stay home and just be with someone I care about.
I am honest, patient, passionate, loyal, (sometimes longer than I should have been). I enjoy gardening and being outside when it's warm.
I don't like Wisconsin winters, but I've lived here all of my life.
I have a good sense of humor and would like someone with the same.

Who am I? I'm a sensitive and sincere man with a good sense of humor. I live life for today and tomorrow. I do not to dwell in the past. I love to laugh and have a good time. I like to be with friends. I particularly like the warmer months that brings the summer festivals, walks on the beach in the moon light, sunrises and sunsets. And rain. I love to listen to rain as it taps on the roof of a car, a tent, a gazebo or a front porch. Thunderstorms are great to watch - to listen to the thunder and watch the lightning. As for sporting type events, I like baseball, auto racing, soccer, and just about anything that brings friends together. I like to camp - gained from being a scout leader with my sons for many years. I enjoy movies, new and old. And while it's fun to snuggle close and watch movies at home, some movies, when seen for the first time, just have to be seen on the big screen. I enjoy music and dancing with my music tastes being eclectic, running from rock, to country, to big band. And every so often a dance night club is fun - the loud music, the people.

I am a romantic and passionate. Opening doors for you, holding your chair, helping you with your coat, bringing you flowers when you don't expect it, leaving you cards that express something special. I love to walk holding hands or have my arm around you. I love to be close, to kiss. Kissing is very special to me, not taken lightly, and given with feeling and emotion. Also, I am physically, romantically passionate, and romantically adventureous.

I also believe in doing the right thing. I believe in "the good guy", the guy in the white hat coming to the rescue, the one who makes things right. I believe in the silver lining because I know it's there, even though sometimes it's hard to see.

I'd like to find that special friend. Someone to share all our deepest thoughts and feelings. Someone to laugh with, love with, dance with, sing with, run with, holding hands, or arms wrapped around one another. We'll start small and see how our relationship develops.

Hmmm....

Have you been out there exploring the world with a healthy dose of adrenoline? Are you the type of person who's looking for someone to man the paddle of your kayak while you enjoy the simple beauty found only in nature? Does the thought of sitting in a bar with the same old crowd make chewing tin foil appealing? Do open air concerts (Blues, Jazz, Rock, Blue Grass, Accoustic, and Classical) set your mind free and awaken your spirit? Does riding a classic motorcycle through the city at night or a scenic backdrop during the day make you want to quit your job and throw caution to the wind? Is your bicycle tuned and ready for summer? Do you value the simple pleasure of new experiences without having to capture every moment in pictures? Do you consider yourself a free thinker who doesn't subscribe to traditional patriarchel or definite liberal or conservative ways? Can you tell a good story and laugh at yourself once in awhile? Are you up for all kinds of adventure nicely balanced with a little relaxation and intellectual stimulation? Do you celebrate the winter and summer solstace?

If you answered yes, yes, yes (enthusiastically or even a little flirty), then send me a message.

UPDATE: I'M TAKEN. MET A COOL GUY AND WANT TO GIVE IT A FAIR SHAKE. IF YOU'RE INTERESTED IN CATCHING A CONCERT OR HANGING OUT AT A FESTIVAL THIS SUMMER OR YOU JUST WANT TO CORRESPOND, DROP ME A LINE OR TWO.

I dont know what to say here so I'll just say it like it is. Christmas has come and gone once again. I now enter another new year alone. No, it wasn't always that way, up untill about 4 years ago I had a wife and familly at least until some homewrecker came along. There's more to it but I won't go there. Short story is I was left for some looser who I'm quite sure presented himself as the "knight in shinning armor". After all I guess I was just a terrible husband, provided a home, put food on the table and made sure that my wife always had a running car outside. Her "knight in shinning armor", lost 2 homes so far, left her several times without a car to drive and now is out of state leaving her to face an eviction from there rented property on her own and care for 3 children.

Yea, I know this is a strange way to describe myself but the fact is I sit here now and just ask "why"? Whay am I such a terrible person that I would be left for someone like that, why do I have to be alone. I'm not going to beat around the bush about it, Im pretty depressed and alone. Right now I'm on 2 different medications for the depresion, unfortunetly I don't feel its helping me much.

I don't feel very confident that I'll ever meet anyone again but I'm hoping that someone here will prove me wrong. I'd just like to meet someone who can make me feel whole again.

I enjoy Wakeboarding, Waterskiing, Snowboarding, Camping, Cars, Reading, Movies, Videogames, Sleeping, and doing absolutely nothing.

Random at times yet always mindful of others around me. I like to talk about anything, so send a message my way if interested.

I am a very unusual person. Love art, animals,especially horses, creating, oil painting, outdoors, camping, exploring, discovering, etc. I do not approve of liars/lies/lieing. Honesty is a mainstay with me. Like the unusual and unique. Love traveling and meeting new people wherever I am. Do not like the coldness that many people have today. Formerly in the rodeo when much younger. Worked with horses, training, breaking, etc. Enjoy the wind on my face and through my hair on a nice ride/putt on winding roads. Very creative person. Many more things about myself but for now this is my start. Any questions just ask me.

I'm just an abnormal guy in an abnormal world trying to enjoy whats around us. I enjoy to travel, to play on-line games, and hanging out with friends. I am setting goals for myself to become a better healthier person. I enjoy learning of all kinds and try to expand my knowledge base when I can.

Everyone seems to think that talking about themselves is so difficult, but then they go on for a whole page and still say nothing. The most unique thing about me comes from what I want and how I see myself in the future. I seek comfort, and disdain extravagance. I prefer quality over quantity, and am willing to take the extra step for the things I care about. I value politeness and companionship over politics, finances and education. That's not to say, however, that those things are not important.

Hello All,
I am look for a good woman that is carin, fun, and hones
I have an older bother and two younger sisters. I volunteer with bigbothers and bigsister in Gafton WI. I love to ballrome dance, ski and horse back ride.

I am looking for someone who likes kids and a good home life. I was married for 10 years. I have two beautiful children b3 and g5. I am well educated with a bachelors degree and masters. I would like to meet someone that enjoys coming home after a days work and have a nice family dinner and spend time cuddling. Weekends filled with fun activities outdoors, football, a night out with friends or a quite night at home together. I am looking for devotion, companionship and love. I am shy at first, but am very outgoing once I get to know you.

So what do you want me to say? I could tell you that I'm a sweet, sensitive, caring boi who's looking to make all your dreams come true. But that would be a lie.

I understand that we're all supposed to tell each other about ourselves in a few short paragraphs, but I'm not really in the habit of volunteering information about myself. So...I like dark chocolate & roses, candles & thunderstorms, I sleep naked, and I love the sound of rain hitting the roof. *shrug* Beyond that, just ask me what you want to know. I'll either tell you the truth, or that it's none of your business, depending on how much I like you.

Not looking for a bf, tho I guess if the right guy came along that would change. I do believe in love, I just don't go looking for it. Until then, friends, hook-ups, or whatever comes along...

DISCLAIMER: I tried to create an honest profile, but after reading it, realized what a superficial prick I must sound like. So...I'm really not. If you want to get to know me, then send me a message. If I'm not interested I won't reply, but I won't be a dick about it unless you are first.

Yahoo Messenger ID is DarkRain17935
DudesNude ID is NightMagic

Excellent conversationalist with a good sense of humor. Book smart, street smart, love... not so smart. Enjoys a good mix of adult responsibility and childlike enthusiasm for all things geeky and quirky.
Housebroken, independent, likes to cuddle, good with kids, plants, and other pets. (I stole that from my cat's adoption papers but it's true for me as well).

hi my name is matt, I have been pretty shy my whole life but once I get to know someone better i open up a lot more. im a person that lkes to take risks when I can b/c I like the danger inloved. Everyone knows me as a kind hearted person,i like to go to the movies a lot, listen to music and go on walks. I dont like drama in my life, i just want to be happy w/ someone I can love for the rest of my life

I have lots of stories to tell. :D

Looking for people to hang out with in the area.

I can be summed up with one word: eclectic.

I have a lot of different interests, enjoy learning new things and attending free events whenever possible.

I enjoy traveling throughout the US and beyond.

I'm not native to WI. I moved up here from IL to go to college and decided to stay. While I am a Packers fan, my heart belongs to the Bears.

I'm also an animal lover - pets and wild.

I love it when I fall asleep in a chilled room and wake up warm seconds before your alarm goes off. I'm addicted to movies and potatoes and onions. If I were to collect anything it would definitely be my little pony. I don't want to learn anything more about James Joyce. I love the way sexy underwear makes me feel, the way midwest sunsets permeate the entire sky with life-bursting color that always fade into black, my car, dressing well, and good friends.

I'm a straightedge atheist, I hold my personal beliefs and ethics as the utmost importance to my life. I think life should be lived to the fullest extent without crutches or vices. I value intelligence and logic, though i find it difficult to find people interested in the pursuit of knowledge.I'm a driven and persistent person,I am extremely motivated when it comes to something i desire. I work out a lot and eat healthy, though I'm not at the peak of physical perfection yet. I do all of these things to honor the idea that I am my own god. Basically meaning i choose my path, and everything that i do has an impact on my life, whether it's good or bad, nothing happens for a reason, it's entirely reflective of how i deal with my life.

Hi! Thank you for looking at my profile :-). I am down to earth, love spending quiet evenings at home cuddling, going out to see my friends band play, love to cook and bake(especially for someone special). I am a Green Bay Packer fan. I enjoy taking weekend trips and exploring new places. I have 2 cats who keep me laughing with their antics! Please feel free to ask questions! And Thanks again for looking!

i enjoy going out to dinner,see a movie and have a few drinks.

like to have a good time.

OK so revised, up to date about me on an empty stomach. I now take one class a week which is Art based and structured and work full time at the worlds biggest retailer, Wal-Mart. I work nights which frees up my day life but that's if sleep permits it. Art is my passion and life long inspiration and I would say philosophy is a close relative to that.

My hobbies and side projects deal with reading books, painting, sketching, taking pictures of the natural side of life, discussing hypothetical questions and figuring people out.

I do not drink to get drunk, no, I drink for enjoyment. For example I order foreign based, ales, stouts, ciders and more and usually hit the local microbrewery maybe once a month. This consists of joining a friend or two for a couple hours while enjoying the atmosphere. Two drinks is my limit followed by a Bloody Mary with a Chaser. I always end up driving so that's another reason.

I try and hit up an event once a month regardless of what it is. As far as movies, as long as I have somebody to go with, I'll go and I am pretty open to what the movie is.

As far as what kind of person I am. I would say quiet at first but that's not a shy issue I am the type to feel the other person out so I don't hit a hick-up "set a bad vibe." I am open minded with strong moral/ethical beliefs but not religious. I do not attend church nor do I hold my beliefs with a god. I do like camping but have not had the time lately to go out. I have been told on many occasions that I am a one in a million kind of guy who make any lady very happy but don't see it that way. I see it as I am an 1 in 1 kind of guy that would make that one gal quite happy. Oh and I am pretty devoted on bettering life; I would consider myself a Realistic Humanistic Surrealist. I am also a very fit, healthy, and level minded individual.

Ok, here is the personal boot. I am not looking for anything special in a relationship, more like a good friend that I can talk to without the negative hock and jive as the communication is the prime factor in any relationship regardless of what kind of relationship it is. I truly believe this is correct because it is always the number one factor why relationships work and do not work.

hey, names David u can call me Dave as well im outgoing, fun to be around Generous, Warmhearted, Creative, Enthusiastic, Broad-Minded, Expansive, Faithful and Loving
Pompous, Patronizing, Bossy, Interfering, Dogmatic and Intolerant
my charisma and innate ability to lead guaranteed,I AM so full of warmth and optimism it is impossible to not find my company pleasurable. Fearless, powerful and dignified by nature, I make a great leader. The force of my will guarantees any task I tackle will be completed.

I'm a hard working person that's looking for a serious long-term relationship. I'm artistic and like to work on my art projects from time to time. I'm also an animal collector. I have two cats that are very special to me. I'm a one man guy. I'm pretty down to earth and try to remain in a good state of mind at all times. If you have any questions please send me a message.

I'm a daydreamer and this is why I somehow feel I'm going to become one of those old writers who dream only of love and yet have experienced none. The thought of it all scares me.

I am waiting to go back to work, been on unemployment, thus the humble aspect, have a couple cats, live on my own.

My name is Kate I am 18 years old. I can be funny and ambitious I am definately very outgoing and I love to try new things. I'm fairly easy to get along with and I have a unique sense of humor. I love to go shopping but I don't waste a lot of my money on it. I am a big cuddler and I have no problem cuddling on the couch with a good movie on a friday instead of going out. Don't get me wrong I like going out too. I am not the typical 18 year old, sure I do some stupid things like a normal teen but I know exactly what I want in life and I'm not afraid to go and get it.

Right now I'm mostly just looking to make new friends, if the right guy comes along that's sweet. I'm transfering to UWM next fall so i'm looking to meet new friends around that area.

Take Note:: I am really turned off by guys who are insecure and have no confidence in themselves. Also if you have a huge ego. No girl likes a guy who thinks he's better then everyone else.

Interests: Dancing Singing Volleyball Music Beach Tubing Swimming South Dakota Beer Pong Six Flags Camping Being Outdoors Vacations Ice skating Having Fun Traveling Bahamas

Im very quite right until you really get to know me and that's when I can turn into a loud obnoxious energetic mad man. Like to consider myself athletic because I enjoy a wide range of activities from jetskiing/wakeboarding in the summer to skiing in the winter. Also very big into my automobiles from simply driving them to working on them.

I am definitely not a very outgoing person and so I have to be somewhat persuaded to do things I never have. Though on a couple of occasions I have done some things to say otherwise. Spent 2 weeks backpacking through Europe and have plans to go back one day to visit a couple of places I didn't check out the first time around.

I'm not a cowboy and I have no idea how to change the oil in my car. That being said, my main interest is showing American Saddlebred horses. I'm a single 26 year old professional male currently residing in Mequon, WI. I grew up in suburban Milwaukee. My hobbies outside of horses include attending/watching Brewers, Bucks and Packer games, going out with friends, and spending the occasional night in. Some of my most enjoyed outdoor activities are golf, disc golf, trail riding through the Kettle Moraine area, and cooking out. I am a very laid back person and I don't let the little things bother me.

Hey all! Guess this i my chance to "sell" myself, huh? Ok, here it goes. I'm a bubbly, fun girl ready to get my life started! I would describe myself as someone who is willing to try everything once! I love friends and family and can't live without them. I'm dependable, extremely loyal, compassionate, entertaining, goofy, intelligent, laid back, level headed, spontaneous, random, "weird" (whoever defined 'normal' anyway?), and just love live for every moment. I would say that I am a motivated person who loves helping others. I don't like to be selfish but love to give my time to others. I love going out, seeing new things and meet new people. I love learning and investigating. Just graduated, I get to start living my life! I love traveling. I'm planning on seeing the world someday. Someday I'd like to take a tour of Europe.
I love photography! Hope to become better at it someday, with more practice. I especially like black and white city shots!
I love the Brewers! I love going to Miller Park! It is always a good time!! Woohoo!
I love thunderstorms, lightening, the smell of rain, puppies, Kit Kat bars, road trips, beer pong (if the mood is right), family get togethers, theater, concerts, the TV show the Big Bang Theory, hiking/walking, Caribou coffee, emails, texts, snail mail, fishing, hunting (if someone would take me, I'd totally go!), singing, making up random little ditties, editing papers (but not writing them! did enough of that in college!), and I could go on!!

Self-Summary..... well I've evaluated myself and I really liked what I found. Hopefully you will too.

Hey, my name is Jim. I am 21 years living in Mequon, WI. I am never really good at writing things like this but I'll give it a try. Some interests that I have are hanging out with friends, movies, video games, bike rides. I have lots of interests so if you want to know more, just ask. Anything you want to know about me, don't be afraid to ask please.

Right now I am single and looking. But thats in the back of my mind. First I want to meet someone and talk to them and get to know them. Eventually hang out and have a good time. Someone who shares some interests of mine and some completely different. That way I can be exposed to new things things that may spark new interests. Also looking for someone who loves to have a good time now matter what we do. Someone who like to go out and have fun but sometimes likes to just relax and stay inside.

I'm a fun loving guy. I love to play pool, hang with friends and just have a good time. I'm very laid back and easy-going. I like to go to movies, concerts, dinner, hiking, chilling with friends. Actually suffice it to say I like doing just about anything. I am a fun loving, laid-back person. I am 6'1" 140 lbs. Naturally my hair is dark brown. I have hazel eyes. That's about all I can think of to say right now, but if there is anything that you'd like to further know about me, just ask away. I'm into watching the Packers play ball, going to the mall, movies, tv, dinner and the like. Long live Absolut Vodka and the Green Bay Packers

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Hallo. Jetzt wohne ich in Milwaukee. Meine Schulfaecher sind Music Ed Instrumental and Vocal Performance bei UWM. Ich bin interesssant und viel Spass. Du kannst mich irgendetwas fragen. Ich liebe Musik, hoeren und spielen. Ich bin sehr "down to earth" so zu sagen. Auch, bin ich leicht zu mitreden. Suche ich ein super tollen Mann wer mich verbindet.

My name's Lydia.

I like writing.
I like the unusual, distorted, and painfully beautiful.
I like doing things fast.

I'm not a Mequon kid, quite the opposite.

I make fun of everything. Really. Black people, white people, jews, you name an ethnic, political, religious, or any other type of group I can think of something smart to say to piss some one off. Fair warning.

I am a laid back guy, sarcastic, funny (or so Im told), random, witty, obtuse at times, and remotely intelligent... I LOVE to talk, laugh, learn, cook, eat, drink, and relax. I keep myself well groomed, and my home clean. I love gourmet dining, as well as a burger from a greasy spoon joint. In other words, I am cultured and refined, while still allowing myself to be a little rough around the edges. I am big on romance, but have my own take on it... I consider myself to be creative, and try to stay away from cliche romantic gestures. If you are expecting red roses and boxes of candy, I am probably not your man. I am not so rigid in my views though, so if you are a rose and candy girl I would accommodate eventually :) I am playful, and love to tease and be teased. I enjoy traveling, but havent had the right opportunities to do so as often as I would like. I am very close with my family, and have a select few friends with which I share a deep loyalty. Although I love going out, I've grown quite weary of the club scene (actually, I was never really into it) and prefer laid back evenings at a nice restaurant, and perhaps a dim lounge for a cocktail or two. I enjoy trying new things, but I wouldn't consider myself nearly as adventurous as I once was...

If you couldnt bear to read that paragraph, and prefer the sterility of a resume, here are a few bullet points for you :)

* singing
* writing (music, lyrics, poetry, random nonsense, etc.)
* playing musical instruments (ukulele, guitar, mandolin, kazoo, whatever I can get my hands on)
* cuddling
* banter
* people watching
* brewers, packers
* learning
* talking (texting and emails can only go so far with me)
* history channel (modern marvels is heavenly)
* chivalry
* gourmet cooking and dining
* laughing at you, laughing at myself
* all things nature (even the ugly, smelly, and/or dangerous stuff)
* drinking (red wine, scotch and irish whiskey, good beer, and the occasional dirty martini)
* breakfast at any time of the day
* romance, seduction, affection, mystery (not necessarily in that order)
* people that dont misuse apostrophe's, and can at least pretend to be articulate
* finding new music to listen to (not really into country, new rap, or anything by "DJ whoever")
* discovering those little holes in the wall that make this town great
* avoiding peoples profiles that have more pictures of their pets and/or children than of themselves, have the words "diva", sexy", and/or "princess" in their screen name, and those who employ the oh so unique lines: "I like doing outdoor activities" (cmon, who doesnt?), or "Im on here because Im sick of meeting people at the bars", or "I dont like games", or "my friend put me up to this"..... *sigh*
* HONESTY

I'm Dan, I'm 28. I've lived in Wisconsin my whole life. I love doing outdoor stuff in summer. I live on my parents farm, also have done that my whole life. I love summer for field parties, hanging with friends, our county fair, demo derbies and tractor pulls. I do work, of course, how else would I fund all the fun? I am an accountant, I will be finishing school in December and will continue on, working as an accountant. I also own my own DJ business and I've been DJing for 6 years. Over winter, I bowl a couple nights a week, DJ weekends, (usually Fridays for sure). I am always open to try some new things. So, if you find any of that stuff interesting, drop me a line, I hope to hear from you soon, lets have some fun!

What can I say about myself? I guess I should say right up front that I'm a music junkie. As for other hobbies, I do play some video games still, though college (or the full time job during the summer) doesn't really allow that as much anymore. Speaking of college, I go to Concordia University Wisconsin (in Mequon) and Milwaukee Institute of Art and Design for Graphic Design. I spend most of my time with those two hobbies listed above, though sometimes I like to branch out. By that I mean that I've written two novels over the years. Sometime this summer I might start another one, depending on how motivated I am. When I say "motivated," I really mean bored. And, just recently I bought a digital SLR camera to further pursue my photography hobby. I've been doing that quite extensively the past few weeks (take a gander at my deviantart, the link is below).

Other than the technical things, I guess I'm just a normal, fun guy with a sarcastic sense of humor. I'm pretty easy to please and I go out of my way to make others happy.

I believe after many years of searching, I've finally found myself. I'm confident and happy with where I am, and so I'm searching for someone else to help complete me. I'm just searching for that special someone who will provide me with moments. You know, they're those special seconds that actually mean nothing in the long run, but, nevertheless, they get lodged in your brain and make you happy just thinking about 'em. Yeah, I want some of those. That, and someone to kiss on the forehead randomly. Also, she has to be able to stand me dancing around and lip syncing The Beatles. I think that's about it.

Aaaaand: Because it's probably an important topic for some, and because I really don't know what to put over there, I am sort of a religious person. By that I mean that I have my beliefs, but they don't really fall into a normal church. I was raised as a catholic, but I'm not really into everything they teach. I'm a christian universalist (everyone will get to heaven at some point), and I believe a lot of the bible was metaphorical, and can't be taken literally at all. I also have some other more specific beliefs that would take far too long to go into. To me, it doesn't really matter what religion someone is, though, as I believe in giving respect to all beliefs. That, and with all the crap humanity has done, we should really celebrate even the mere chance of being saved, no matter who or what does it. Again, I don't personally care what religion you are as long as you don't push me into yours. I've dated hardcore athiests, and hardcore dogmatic christians, so I know both sides.

If you want to know any more, you can stalk me here:

My myspace: http://www.myspace.com/radikal_dreamer

My Livejournal: radikal-dreamer.livejournal.com/

My Deviantart: http://radikaldreamer.deviantart.com/

My Audioscrobbler: http://www.last.fm/user/radikal_dreamer/

I love to be outside and to explore nature. I can't stand to be inside for a full day. During the winter months I like to snowboard, and during the summer I play baseball, volleyball, and football with friends. Since a young age I have loved drawing, but I don't draw as much as I used to. I also started playing music at a young age..I now play piano, drums, bass, and guitar.

I am a very honest and reliable person, I take my morality seriously.

Hi, I'm Matt. I've been through a lot in the past year. I started a new job and got my own place for the first time. I haven't had any luck dating in a while and thought I'd give this a chance.

If anything, I'm a good friend, who will always be there to listen and help. I've always been on the shy side. If you want to know anything more about me, just ask.

Hereâ??s the deal, Iâ??m into deep shit, and trivial shit. I can watch a movie and cry from one scene because it relates to me or a point in my life, AND it could relate to someone I know. I can also watch the same scene with someone else and be cross because either they donâ??t relate, or they donâ??t know someone who could relate. It sounds silly, but our experiences are the makeup of our lives.
We are all the sum of our parts, yet our parts are greater than the sum of our souls.
Has any of you ever been in a situation where something happens and immediately you are distracted by a reference you either saw, read, or heard? I am constantly making references to things I have either witnessed, or have seen in fiction. Itâ??s a curse really. I munge real life with fiction in some convoluted way, and come to my own conclusions.
I am not prince charming, I am not an Ogre. I am as complex as what I have seen all women are, possibly more (if I count close friends as reference). Who am I? I am prince charming in a hobo suit. I have very deep seeded convictions, and held beliefs. I am honest to a fault, yet I have honestly lied to a woman. I am insecure, and back that up with life experiences. I am confident in my convictions, and my loyalty. I admit mistakes in my life, and I admit I make excuses for some of them.
I have the most profound and wonderful relationship with my best friend, his wife, and their youngest daughter... my Goddaughter. I am involved with their lives so much it can't be explained here, but it is extremely important in my life. I love them, and her to death, and sometimes sacrifice things in my own life for their good.

Oh, this is important, I am a strong Conservative Republican and I watch Glenn Beck occasionally.

Just looking to make friends for myself and my wife, and who knows what will happen. looking for friends and fun, and someone to help us use our Winnebago Class A motorhome with us ,when we go camping.(soon as it's fixed that is)
As long as you like cats...we tend to take one or three with us when we go.
What else can I say? even if we're not a very good match on paper, that doesn't mean that we can't chat on occasion, or even be friends, as I know my wife needs some friends out here.
Finally got the wife to make her own profile on here
<<InBastService>> is her profile now, so take a gander ladies, and see what you think.
Pleanty of males on here have chatted her up within minutes (seconds really) of her creating a basic profile, and they hadn't even looked at it yet to see she's married... what is with that?

I am a woman with a million hobbies. I love motorcycles, downhill skiing, bicycle riding and pretty much anything that gets me out of the house. I live in a 3 walled cube during the day staring at computer screen so spending my free time watching TV does not happen very often unless a really good sci-fi comes on. (I am one of the last human beings that does not have cable TV). I still have hopes of having a family. I am also a firm believer that everyone needs their space and individuality in order for a relationship to work - you should be able to compliment each other, not restrict them from being who they are.

Im 22 years old, and born in The Netherlands. I have 2 younger sisters who are in high school. I love football, and have my Sundays set aside for the Packers pretty much! I am a Packer fan before I am a Favre fan, so my screen name is somewhat deceiving. I enjoy watching movies and cuddling up on the couch for a nice relaxing night. I suck at these things so if you want to know more, feel free to message me! =)

It's me. What can I say. I have been there done that and will do it again. Love taking pictures and hanging out with friends. Lived in Israel, New York and Florida. Not sure what else to say.

Loving life! I am busy and having more fun than ever before. Looking for friends to hang with and great times to be had. I love the mountains, the city, and everything in between.

Hey! so never tried anything like this before! I love being active and I always on the go!

Well I just moved to Jackson,WI and I work at a powersports dealership...I am new to wisconsin since i am from Phoenix, AZ...I have been single for along time roughly 3 yrs...I am a motocross racer looking to come out of retirement and get back into kicking some ass...I love to live life and have fun...I am very into extreme sports and like to go out and like to stay in if you catch my drift...Well i am also heavily TATTOOED and built like a mack truck...Well if you want to know anything else hit me up

I like fun and I consider myself to be pretty good instigator of it. I like challenges. It's always good to push limits and see how far you can go. I think of all God's creations, the female form has to rank as one of the best...right up there with life itself.

hi im sam.
mice to meet u.
im 20 years old.
i live wit my dad and my brother.
im a manger at a restraunt.
wanna knw more just ask.
or hit me up.
cell-262-573-9856

I'm just your average looking lady who likes going to broadway shows and enjoys doing just about anything. I like going out for dinner, watching movies and spending time with my 2 dogs. I'm also someone who can be counted on through thick and thin. I'd like people to know that looks aren't everything, its who you're inside. I'm down to earth, low maintenance, casual dresser but can adapt to whatever occasion. I'm a great listener. real, genuine and I don't play games.

I'm just a chill guy. I go with the flow. I'm pretty shy at first, but if I like you I'll probably open up. I love sports and the outdoors.

hey my names seth i love cars and working on them. i have a nissan sentra se-r spec v and i love it. i also like to go to car shows, play sports, watch movies, hunt, fish, cruise around wit friends, listen to music, play video games, snowboard, go on the computer and much much more. i like to be very active and i love doing things so hit me up if u wanna kno more

I'm 59, married, my wife and I stay/live together as a matter of convenience and economics. There is not much of a bond between us anymore except that we do seem to get along for the most part. My wife has some serious health issues. My VA health benefits include her medical care. A divorce would end all that and I'm really not the kind of person to just abandon her, so I feel sort of stuck in this situation. She doesn't love me and I do not love her anymore. What is a guy to do? I feel a need for someone I can be affectionate with, but it's difficult to find someone that doesn't beg off automatically just because of the marriage. I'm a man with a great deal of integrity and much to offer. I would very much like to find a connection. That does not mean a sex connection. Such things can wait (Iâ??m not one to confuse affection with sex). Iâ??m looking for someone I can correspond with for a short time so we can get to know each other, and after that maybe conversations on the phone before we spend some quality time together, and then do things together like: Sharing my Motorcycle, better yet if you have your own, Dining, Movies, and possibly Golf, Fishing, Travel, or just Cuddle sometimes (none of these is a must). I'm hoping someone will understand my situation just enough to start communication with me. I will be as honest as I possibly can as I expect you will be also. I have a good sense of humor and my word is my bond. I hope thatâ??s enough to start off with for now. I'm not likely to make the first move on this website because of my unique situation, but on rare occasions I may initiate contact.

Looking for people to do something different with... read on to see if we're compatible.

I'm a really open person. I'm willing to try most things. I enjoy warm weather and I abhor the cold. I'm avidly nonreligious, anti-traditional politics (our current political climate is so fubar,) pro-choice, pro-science, pro-skinny, and really laid back.

I'm a college student at UW-Milwaukee, majoring in Psychology and considering a minor in Criminal Justice. I spend a fair amount of time messing around on my laptop while cuddling with my cat, although I've been known to go out with friends on occasion. I'm not a big partyer, to be honest, and I have a tendency to be a bit shy. I've been going out and doing things with my boyfriend <<sfitty>>, but when I'm on my own I usually stay in and relax.

I'm best friends with <<turandot8289>>. She probably knows me better than I know myself.

I like to think that I'm a fairly funny person, although I'm certainly not as quick-witted with comebacks as I'd like to be. I have to admit, I couldn't see myself being friends with someone without a good sense of humour.

Also, I'm a goon at somethingawful.com.